Recover, refresh and move forward

A turning point

“Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road, time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.” — Green Day

 Our Mission: FJMC provides men opportunities for personal growth and to build strong relationships. We accomplish this through: celebrating Jewish learning, traditions and culture; gathering for social events and retreats; performing service projects; engaging over Israel; combating hate and antisemitism; mentoring the current and next generation of leaders; prioritizing our health and wellness; and supporting one another in safe and nonjudgmental communities.

By Bruce Tomar

For nearly 100 years, FJMC – first as the Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs, then The National Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs, which evolved into the International Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs, and now as FJMC International – has been providing men activities and programs that allow them to be themselves and make friends with other men who similarly enjoy religious, social and philanthropic opportunities. Today men participate in FJMC programming online and in-person internationally, regionally and locally.

Why am I telling you all this?

The high holidays of the new year 5787 are behind us. So now is the time to reflect, re-energize and re-commit:

Reflect (Look Back)

• Assess the past: Review what worked, what failed and where your time and energy actually went.
• Identify lessons: Extract key takeaways from recent challenges without judgment or self-blame.
• Reclaim your “why”: Reconnect with the core purpose or motivation that started your journey.

Re-energize (Recover and Refresh)

• Step away: Create mental and physical breathing room by unplugging from daily demands.
• Restore your reserves: Prioritize sleep, nutrition, movement or quiet time to replenish your physical and emotional fuel.
• Release pressure: Drop perfectionism and unrealistic expectations that drain your enthusiasm.

Recommit (Move Forward)

• Align your goals: Ensure your current targets still matter to you and are worth your future effort.
• Make daily choices: Treat commitment as an ongoing daily practice rather than a one-time decision.
• Cut the clutter: Say no to distractions, habits or commitments that pull you away from your priorities.

May we all move from this season with strength, and renewed purpose.

Yours in brotherhood,

Bruce Tomar

Bruce Tomar is president of FJMC International.